In my husband’s hometown, deep within China’s countryside, there is an old man who holds a very special book. This book cannot be borrowed, even for a day, and cannot be taken out of his home. It is the book which holds the genealogy---the family tree---for the Qian family dating back to the dynasties. Our children’s names have now been added to this incredible, hand-written, family tree. When we go back to the village every year at Chinese New Year, we see the book, and hope that our …
Instilling Leadership Skills in Kids
As an educator and parent, I have learned that there are several ways to cultivate true leaders as we influence children. Let me share 3 practical principles to consider as we shape the leaders of tomorrow. It is important to recognize that there are many kinds of leaders. There are extroverted, charismatic leaders, whom we might first imagine when thinking about leadership. There are also introverted, quiet leaders. These leaders may speak less often that others---yet they lead by …
7 Life Lessons for Women
As Women’s Day approaches, I’ve reflected on lessons I’ve learned throughout my life--- particularly as a woman. Some of our most important life lessons come to us through personal experience. If I could have a chat with my younger self, I would offer a few lessons I’ve learned. But since I can’t do that, I’ll offer these lessons to my daughter, and to any other woman looking for a few insights. Among all your other life lessons, make it a point to deeply know these seven things. First, know …
Student-Led Conferences
As a teacher, one of my favorite days of the year is Student-Led Conference Day. I have the opportunity to watch my students interact with their parents, guiding them through the important third grade work they've done so far this year. They share their ups, their downs, their favorite pieces of work, and the things that were difficult for them. It's not a time to display perfect work---it's a time to share the journey, and discuss life in third grade. I absolutely love the pride and joy …
What Does It Mean To Be Clean?
I was reflecting recently on an experience I'd had a couple of years ago. I think I needed some assurance that I was doing at least a couple of things right as a Mom. I had been talking with a few boys who are part of the scouting program. I asked them what it meant to be "clean" as that is one of the qualities listed in the Scout Law. Most of them said it meant to have good hygiene, to wash our hands, to keep our bodies clean. Others talked about the idea of "leave no trace" when …
Lessons From Mom and Dad
My dear parents were such wonderful examples to me. They both overcame various obstacles in their lives and like all of us, they weren't perfect, but as I'm a parent now it is obvious to me that they did so many things correctly. I'm very grateful for a few things in particular. I miss them, but I am so lucky to have tremendously happy memories. Because of my faith and personal testimony, I know I will, in some way, see them again one day. I don't pretend to know exactly how that will …